Ava Adore

novagrrl asked: Do your girfriends ever get jealous?

No, and with good reason…

1) My girlfriend, should I have one, is welcome to come see me any time, with or without notice, should she desire. I have nothing to hide and there is nothing shameful about what I do. She would never have to worry imagining what may be going on; she could see it, if she likes.

2) I am a big ol’ dyke and have been ‘out’ for 11 years now, so that’s not going to change. There isn’t one gent who could walk through that door that’d get me to turn my head. That’s part of why dancing is easy for me: I feel completely unattached to my clientele. As for the dancers, they’re my coworkers; don’t mix business and pleasure.

3) If a lady customer did happen to enter (rare) who was not with her boyfriend (rarer) and was visibly a lesbian (pretty much nonexistent), I could understand why she may get jealous; however, being that she’s my girlfriend, she would know that I take commitment seriously, and if you get me to use the g-word, there is no one else I’d rather be with.

4) Physically speaking, it’s nothing she hasn’t seen before—and more, and better, and more personal. Plus, seeing me perform is just another form of foreplay, twisting voyeurism to our own personal amusement; like there’s a secret, and only the two of us know. It’s pretty sexy.

In closing, I’m currently single, so I have no girlfriend to get jealous. However, the recent three people I have steadily ‘seen’ in the non-committed sense have all been welcome at the House.

Thanks for the question! And cool username, by the way.